Well, I went to the ENT yet again, and he set me up for a biopsy on the back left side of my tongue finally! It's scheduled for the 17th, one day before my birthday. He did say that normally for me to have pain I would have a large tumor if it was cancer and he still doesn't see much in there. So thats good so far lol. He could see a little bitof a red spot this time and he will be taking the biopsy from where I need him too so thats good.
Hopefully it's nothing worth worrying about or if is carcinoma hopefully I will catch it early enough to reduce my morbidity!
Wish me luck, and if it turns out benign please forgive me for wasting everyone's time here.