Chris
Never a day goes by that anyone touched by the c word doesn't worry, the key is to carry on in the knowledge that you have people looking after your best interests, your ENT, your oral surgeon,your loved ones,your new friends on the board and your very own self & God. I pray that you are in the earliest stages, that you will be talking about your second child at 15 with such care as your first, and that your journey is not a hard one. Some of your path report seemed very encouraging..dysplasia being pre-cancerous (NOT cancer) in situ meaning NOT spread and the size I hope is as small as can be.
Hope & prayers for you, take care.
Maria