Hi Chris & welcome! We're about the same age. I'm 43, wife & 3 kids! Really sorry you have to be here but we are here for you. My best advice is to educate yourself as much as possible so you can be an informed patient. Get yourself to a comrehensive cancer center with a tumor board that practices team medicine & has lots of experience with this cancer. My best to you & don't forget to breath & realize you will get through this to be there for your 15 yr old & new child! Your friend Erik!