Thank you so much for the support. It's so nice to talk to people that are going through or have been through a similar experience.
I have had 2 opinions at the larger cancer centers in the city. I decided to go with the hospital that deals exclusively with cancer. They have a large Head and Neck Unit and the other hospital refer the more challenging cases to my Dr. This hospital also has an excellent reputation.
Question for you...did most of you have radiation? The choice is up to me, but it's not an option they are recommending at this time.

Thanks again!