Rosie, you are an incredibly generous woman to take the time to try to help others, even at a time when your own needs are so great. Your passion to keep others from making a mistake by not seeking treatment, or by blind acceptance is also commendable. We all have found your posts on this board to be articulate, helpful, as well as heartfelt, and I want you to know that my comments should not be construed as any kind of personal attack, but merely aimed at finding balance.

Brian, stage 4 oral cancer survivor. OCF Founder and Director. The first responsibility of a leader is to define reality. The last is to say thank you. In between, the leader is a servant.