Brian,

Actually, I thought perhaps a doctor should biopsy the lump, not the sores. And you are right, in my sorrow, anger and confusion over Heather's condition, I came on too strong.

Patrick,

I believe you need to get a second opinion, especially to address the issue of the ear pain and the lump. Brian and the rest are right, though, the sores and the ridge you describe do not sound like cancer. Heather didn't have any of those symptoms. No sores, no ridge, no fatigue, not even a lump. It is very unlikely that you have cancer and hopefully, getting an opinion from another doctor will set your mind to rest. Just be diligent and be aware of any changes or any new symptoms. Wishing you a happy outcome.

Rainbows & hugs, wink
Rosie

Was primary caregiver to my daughter Heather who had stage IV base of tongue SCC w/ primary recurrence. Original diagnosis August 21st, 2002. Primary recurrence March 18th, 2003. Died October 6th, 2003.