Hello & welcome,

Julie & Dee talk from the caregiver side of cancer. And I am convinced that the caregiver side is the hardest. From the feelings of not being able to help, to catching the brunt of the bad moods and anger that builds up in us a we go through treatment.
Take their advise about the antidepressants...from all that I've read they will help both of you through this. And probably Julie's other comment about time helping is right on. I know my mood lifted the further along I got out of treatment. Maybe because my body was feeling better and slowly more energetic? Who knows? I just know that the further behind me treatment got the better I started feeling.

You take care and come back and talk anytime.
Dinah