Paul,
Welcome!!
Your first post caused a flood of many emotions to come back to me. I'm not an OC survivor, I had clear cell sarcoma in my right leg. I was treated ten years ago. The reason I hang out here is that I feel I can offer advice and information to people as a result of my profession.
I was 37 when I was diagnosed, my son was 7 months old. I have experienced the load of a father with an infant son when such a wall is put in front of you.
As others have said, you have a positive attitude and a plan, and you are looking out for yourself. Keep this up!!
If I can be of any help to you please contact me.

My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Cheers

Mike