Paul,loats of good advice above AND one of the most important is to get your wife on this site with you, so she has access to a full range of information and a way to communicate with other caregivers as well. Best luck. Amy in the Ozarks
CGtoJohn:SCC Flr of Mouth.Dx 3\05. Surg.4\05.T3NOMO.IMRTx30. Recur Dx 1\06.Surg 2\06. Chemo: 4 Cycles of Carbo\Taxol:on Erbitux for 7 mo. Lost our battle 2-23-07- But not the will to fight this disease