Oscar,
I, like Stoj, have mixed feelings saying welcome. I do, however, want to welcome you. You are in the right place for information, help, answers to all types of questions, and most of all love and support.
I cannot personally relate to Oral Cancer, but have come into contact with it way to often in my career as far as I'm concerned. The feelings you are having hit very close to home. I remember like it was yesterday.
We are all in your corner. I have come to know the members and visitors who come to this site as strong, emotional and informative. You can and will, as I have, learn a lot and learn from the experiences of others.
You are not alone!!!
Please feel free to PM or e-mail me if you think I can help.
My thoughts, prayers and best wishes for a speedy recovery are with you and your family.

God Bless.

Mike