Many of you may deem this information totally irrelevant, but I'm posting it anyway. A couple of weeks ago, while sitting with John for his Erbitux infusion, I saw the book "Uplift" by Barbara Delinsky on the magazine rack outside his chemo cubicle. Because I have 2 friends, miles away, that are breast cancer survivors , I asked if I could check the book out for a few weeks. It is a great read for any type of cancer patient or caregiver. It speaks to the most positive and proactive attitudes that survivors need, and it made me realize that no matter what kind of cancer one is diagnosed with, the battle to beat it is the same. [Since this book is specifically about breast cancer, it might appeal to the women more.] Amy