now i am not the one who had OC but am the spouse of one who did so I don't know what it's like to have cancer but I recently got hospitalized for a really bad peptic ulcer. I had been throwing up off and on for weeks and had a shot to stop throwing up. I got so weak, I was afraid to take a shower as I was very weak. I was eating a few hundred calories a day for at least a month. I tell you this because you will continue to get weaker and it gets out of control. I was fainting often as well.

So some cyber hugs to you and I hope you get some answers quickly.


Spouse of 58 yr old with BOT cancer
Stage 4a HPV16 positive
3 chemo treatments cisplantin
35 radiation treatments 7000 cGy
former smoker/chewed tobacco for 38 yrs.
1/2020 diagnosed with cancer near TMJ
4/2020 chemo 5 days every 2 weeks
6/2020 proton therapy
9/21/2020 cancer free