I'm glad I have a place to vent a bit and get info.

I heard a can pop sound last night. Yep, big case of beer in the garage fridge. He is in the middle of chemo and eventually proton therapy.

Obviously, there is never recognition that risky behavior affects anyone but himself.

Spouse of 58 yr old with BOT cancer
Stage 4a HPV16 positive
3 chemo treatments cisplantin
35 radiation treatments 7000 cGy
former smoker/chewed tobacco for 38 yrs.
1/2020 diagnosed with cancer near TMJ
4/2020 chemo 5 days every 2 weeks
6/2020 proton therapy
9/21/2020 cancer free