My name is John I live in Ohio with my wife and our pets. We have 2 grown children that have moved out of the nest. I'm 3 weeks into throat cancer treatments and I am struggling a great deal. Everything I put in my mouth makes me gag. They did not put in a PEG tube because they said it would be too risky with my body size. The only thing I was able to get down today was some jello, and I had to force that down. My wife doesn't know what to do for me and I don't know what to do. This will make week 3 and they say I need 7 weeks total. I have plenty of weight to loose but the doctors keep wanting me to maintain. I feel very alone in my circumstance. Any advice?