My mom was just recently diagnosed with Stage IVA oral cancer. She has decided to pursue palliative options and today her case was opened up with hospice.
My dad is her main caregiver as my brother and I are about an hour away. He is burnt out, but wont admit it. He feels guilty like he should have been the one (my mom has negative risk factors for this cancer) but he smoked. Im not sure how to support him with not being there on a day to day basis. He keeps saying that I don't know what he is going through. Any advice/thoughts is appreciated.