Amy, I will share your "letter" with my husband. We are in close communication esp. because of our baby and see each other every day. You are doing a tremendous service by writing in this forum in the midst of what I can only imagine is an emotionally challenging time.

Lenny, you have a great attitude and it is very heartening to hear about your relationship with your ex. Thank you!

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Former caregiver to husband, 42, who is in remission from Stage IV tonstillar cancer (dx June 04)
T2N2bM0
3 cycles induction chemo, followed by 7 weeks daily IMRT with concomitant chemo, then selective neck dissection