Hi Wendy,
I was diagnosed 3/7. You can do this. The people here are wonderful and will share their knowledge and experience with you.

Mine was discovered in a lymph node and has an unknown primary. I have trans oral robotic surgery planned on 5/9 at Stanford.

ChristineB will tell you more but if you aren't already at one, I suggest a comprehensive cancer program available in big cities or teaching hospitals. There will be a multi disciplinary approach.

CougarDad2 and Gmcraft have great advice.

Please reach out for support. You may want to ask to record your visits on your phone so you can listen and review later.

Wishing you the best,
Stef


Keep fighting friends!

Me -- currently 53 years old
SCC diagnosed 3/7/2017 at age 48
Staging SCC HPV+ T0,N1 primary unknown
PET 3/16, no activity, biopsies 3/23 benign
TORS surgery identified 2mm tumor in BOT (vallecula)
Cancer restaged T1, N2, M0
Begin 30 sessions of radiation (60 Gy) 6/13
Completed radiation 7/24/2017
1st MRI clear 10/23/2017!!
2nd MRI clear 10/17/2018!