I can't add to my comment, but wanted to mention that I may have confused different levels of my meetings between those thar are initial visits for 2nd or 3rd opinions vs the rest which are mostly follow-up now, and developed a relationship with the doctor over time, and know how they operate/want. For my initial visit, I do go all out like a job interview. I have all my records, well most, since their in the 400 page range, including all my cd scans, reports, doctor notes, if needed.

Today, my 6 month follow-up, my doctor got a kick out of my radiation mask I decorated as spiderman, and asked me to e-mail a copy to him, and then we spoke about a recent abstract of his I found he published between doctors in regards to the early feasibility of receiving Proton Therapy for HNC, which I'm part of follow study, so he was happy to speak about that, and a concern of mine is to keep my doctors happy with me, and speak of other non related health items deepening on time, but it's two people having a concern/respect for each other, and I don't want to loose any, and most look forward in seeing me. Contrast MRI in January and PET/CT in June.