Hello, I'm sorry that I am unable to help you. Oral cancers are a terrible disease.
I hope someone comes along soon who can advise you specifically.
Have you checked out the main OCF pages as I think Oral Melanomas as a cause are mentioned there.
How is your Mother being treated? Is she being seen at a Comprehensive Cancer Center - a CCC?
I would think that her treatment would be the same as many others on this site though Squamous Cell carcinoma is the primary causative agent for most.
Keep in touch.
Tammy