Hello, I just want to say welcome.
My husband too has had a total Glossectomy. I'm presuming that was your surgery? Hang in there. It does get better. I hope you have family support to get you through this. This group will help you enormously. There will always be someone around who has experienced what you have and who will be able to answer any queries you may have.
Tammy


Caregiver/advocate to Husband Kris age 59@ diagnosis
DX Dec '10 SCC BOT T4aN2bM0 HPV+ve.Cisplatin x3 35 IMRT.
PET 6/11 clear.
R) level 2-4 neck dissection 8/1/11 to remove residual node - necrotic with NED
Feb '12 Ca back.. 3/8/12 total glossectomy/laryngectomy/bilat neck dissection/partial pharyngectomy etc. clear margins. All nodes negative for disease. PEG in.
March 2017 - 5 years disease free. Woohoo!