thank you for all of the advice and kind words. His parents are with us for the week and he asked them to stay another week, not sure if they will. My boss has been extremely understanding and has even offered to give me some of his vacation time. So I am truly blessed. Hubby had a good day today and I was able to take him to Publix..our grocery store...it's the little things in life! I will stay home as long as I can and it's good to know I can do intermittent as needed.


Caregiver to husband 53 SCC stage 3 soft palate 2011 Rad, recurrence tongue stage 4 2012 induction chemo, partial glossectomy surgery, cancer back left rad neck dissection 2013, more chemo, allergic to erbitux, cancer back 2014 floor of mouth and jaw, mandibulectomy scheduled 3/5/2014