Thanks Eileen for the info. I do have to wonder though what were your symtoms for you cancer?

This reminds me of a joke my dad used to say when I was little...If I asked him a simple question he would say "It kinda makes you wonder doesn't it?" "Don't wonder to far you might get lost."

And yes Eileen I understand the word river. Thanks to the Delaware I met my husband to whom I have been married to for 20 years. He use to work on a Tug that would go to Trenton hauling coal. The Anchor in was the spot. I don't know if it is still there but God was with us and has always been.

Through this whole ordeal it has brought him and I back closer again.

I am so glad I found this site. It has helped me a little so far and I feel that It will help me out more to understand and not worry so much. Thanks for caring!!! We are all going through trials and tribulations but we all need each other.

Take care and thanks again
Love
Terry