I too was overwhelmed, however, he must learn to take this one day at a time. Focus on what you must get through today. It is a tough few months, but it is just a couple of months. The end seems like it is a lot farther away then it really is. I am nine months out of treatment and doing well. the chemo and radiation treat everyone differently and we all will have our own story when wwe finish. You have to be strong for him and he must resist feeling down or sorry. You can get through this, it will be hard, but it is worth it.

Steve


SCC, base of tongue, 2 lymph nodes, stage 3/4. 35 X's IMRT radiation, chemo: Cisplatin x 2, 5FU x2, & Taxol x2. Hooray, after 3 years I'm in still in remission.