Hi John, welcome, from another New Englander.
Glad you caught things early, makes a big difference. Look like you have a good start. One item to be aware is the care giver, and family impact, even if you have older kids. only after 2 years did I learn how hard the kids took the initial news, everyone hears the diagnosis of stage 3 and assumes the worst. Even for the caregiver it is a huge emotional and physically draining road, strengthen it up early, plan for some extra help.
Here is a news article I just came across last week, didn't see it on OCF sight but probably there. Might be an interesting add to your medical discussions if you fit the category.

http://news.vanderbilt.edu/2014/06/...tients-may-receive-lower-radiation-dose/

Take care..
Mike

Nov2011Tonsil Cancer Stage3 T1N1 HPV+, Non-smoker, slight drinker
Dec2011 Radical Tonsilectomy (TORS),
Jan2012 Neck Disection areas 2,3,4
Feb2012 Opinions from 5 RO's decision for No Rads/No Chemo
Jan2013 all clear at 1 year , continue regular check-ups
Jan2014 all clear at 2 years, less frequent check-ups
Jan2015 all clear at 3 years, MRI, chest x-ray, blood work all good