First off remember none of us are doctors of any kind but we are seasoned patients and some of us, like me, have read thousands of posts over many years.

I would strongly encourage you to listen to your highly trained, most likely experienced specialist. No one on this site would advocate terminating Tx. This cancer has proven a million times over to be extremely agressive and hard to eliminate even with the full amount of Tx. We often see recurrence after recurrence. Some ultimately kill it and some do not but under virtually no circumstances would I stop this Tx.

The reactions he's having are well within normal. Talk to the doctors about things that may help him get past these adverse reactions, i.e., pain meds, feeding tube, topical ointments just to name a few. Most of us had nasty reactions throughout our Tx starting around the mid point and they will get worse but with the proper assistance he can get through this Tx with minimal discomfort. I personally thought my Tx was going to kill me , not the cancer. I lost 30% of my total body weight and was admitted to the hospital on several ocassions during Tx but I survived both the Tx and the cancer and I'm here 8 years post Tx telling you so.


David

Age 58 at Dx, HPV16+ SCC, Stage IV BOT+2 nodes, non smoker, casual drinker, exercise nut, Cisplatin x 3 & concurrent IMRT x 35,(70 Gy), no surgery, no Peg, Tx at Moffitt over Aug 06. Jun 07, back to riding my bike 100 miles a wk. Now doing 12 Spin classes and 60 outdoor miles per wk. Nov 13 completed Hilly Century ride for Cancer, 104 miles, 1st Place in my age group. Apr 2014 & 15, Spun for 9 straight hrs to raise $$ for YMCA's Livestrong Program. Certified Spin Instructor Jun 2014.