Hi Anita, trismus is miserable! I wish I had a solution to offer. You mentioned that Clark uses his Therabite daily -- I don't know if you meant multiple times daily, but I was told to use mine 7 x a day. I also try to work in exercises recommended by Sloan Kettering here:
http://www.mskcc.org/cancer-care/patient-education/resources/trismusThe same site recommends seeking out a rehabilitation doctor for persistent trismus. Maybe that's an option for you?
I personally have found it helps to yawn a lot.
Clark has my sympathy, good luck, PLEASE let us know if you find the cure!
Lynn