Welcome to OCF! You have found the right place to get info and support. We will help get you both thru the upcoming treatments and recovery. Its not easy but it is doable.

As a caregiver, you have an incredibly difficult job. Taking care of all the household issues plus being an advocate, caregiver and wife to your husband. Thats alot for anyone to manage. Please be good to yourself and take some time for just you once in a while.

I suggest doing lots of reading both here and on the main OCF pages. Educate yourself so you will be ready when you need to advocate for your husband.

Hang in there!


Christine
SCC 6/15/07 L chk & by L molar both Stag I, age44
2x cispltn-35 IMRT end 9/27/07
-65 lbs in 2 mo, no caregvr
Clear PET 1/08
4/4/08 recur L chk Stag I
surg 4/16/08 clr marg
215 HBO dives
3/09 teeth out, trismus
7/2/09 recur, Stg IV
8/24/09 trach, ND, mandiblctmy
3wks medicly inducd coma
2 mo xtended hospital stay, ICU & burn unit
PICC line IV antibx 8 mo
10/4/10, 2/14/11 reconst surg
OC 3x in 3 years
very happy to be alive smile