| Administrator, Director of Patient Support Services Patient Advocate (old timer, 2000 posts) Joined: Jun 2007 Posts: 10,507 Likes: 8 | Welcome to OCF! You have found the right place to get info and support. We will help get you both thru the upcoming treatments and recovery. Its not easy but it is doable.
As a caregiver, you have an incredibly difficult job. Taking care of all the household issues plus being an advocate, caregiver and wife to your husband. Thats alot for anyone to manage. Please be good to yourself and take some time for just you once in a while.
I suggest doing lots of reading both here and on the main OCF pages. Educate yourself so you will be ready when you need to advocate for your husband.
Hang in there! ChristineSCC 6/15/07 L chk & by L molar both Stag I, age44 2x cispltn-35 IMRT end 9/27/07 -65 lbs in 2 mo, no caregvr Clear PET 1/08 4/4/08 recur L chk Stag I surg 4/16/08 clr marg 215 HBO dives 3/09 teeth out, trismus 7/2/09 recur, Stg IV 8/24/09 trach, ND, mandiblctmy 3wks medicly inducd coma 2 mo xtended hospital stay, ICU & burn unit PICC line IV antibx 8 mo 10/4/10, 2/14/11 reconst surg OC 3x in 3 years very happy to be alive |