Hi Sophie, as you can see from the many on here, there is certainly quality of life after any type of treatment. Much is based on how an individual chooses to face the various challenges. It looks like both you and your husband are on the right path for that.

As for the neck tightness, I also found that after my surgery. It gets better over time, although very slowly. Definitely keep up with all the stretching and physio, as that was the best assistance I had.

Best of luck to you!

Tina
Diag: Aug. 13/12
T3N0M0
50% + glossectomy and bilateral radical neck dissection, removal of nodes zones I - V
Surgery October 11/12
Chemo/rad on hold due to clear margins and nodes
Sept 21/13 clear CT with anomaly thought to be the artery, being watched closely.
Dec 16/13 - anomaly confirmed artery, all clear
nickname: "get 'r done"
Plans: kick cancer's butt