Dear Zap,
I myself am new to this site and it has been a great source of information to me. I am the wife of a cancer patient. Stage IV base of tongue T4n2cM0. He just started treatment 2 weeks ago at the University of Michigan. So far he seems to be doing okay and we are also scared but we are just taking it one day at a time. The support from the people you get on this website is wonderful. God bless you and your family and hang in there.
Sincerely,
Virginia
wife to Doug age 47, children 17 and 13years of age