Follow up for other people that might be looking for an answer: biopsy just got in: all clear even though Doc is still suspicious and will cut spot out if not gone in 3 months.
So I'm working on that as am mortally, phobically afraid of cutting. If anybody has an idea, do tell....I'll go with incredible teeth brushing, oil of oregano, and a visit to general doc who so far has always gotten my icky tongue issues in grip. Also have found Ent that works with Medical Center, so will go there for follow up.