Hi Tony,
I have no useful advise for you, but I wanted to let you know that you are not alone. We're waiting for Friday too, which is when we will learn the treatment recommendations for my mom's BOT metastatic squamous whatchamacallit. Everything in her life, my life, and my sister's life is on hold until 9am Friday. I've never felt so tired and ungrounded, and I'm just the caregiver!
Good luck to you.
Little Bird, CG to mother, diagnosed March 15, 2013, age 70, non-smoker, non-drinker
BOT, HPV+
Cisplatin and 35 days of radiation, completed June 13, 2013.
Looks like they got it all. (knock on wood)
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