Laurie - I think I may have shifted (hi-jacked) the focus of this thread to my own concerns so please forgive me. You have some great suggestions above. It's so hard to see someone you care about having such a rough time in recovery and it must be hard on your children, too. I received a really nice PM from one of the posters above with info on the E-Cig and would be glad to share it with you if you think this is something that your husband might want to consider. I hope things get better for both of you, soon.