Thank you everyone for all your advice and help! I am printing out some of your information to present him the facts and some options (Brian and Connie.) I swear that I feel better just venting and knowing that there are people who care!
This site has been a lifeline!
Anne-Marie, thanks, I'd love whatever info you have!

Christine, I can't imagine what more it's going to take to get him to realize what he's doing to himself and his family. I keep thinking if all of this isn't enough incentive what will be!

Wanda, I have never been addicted to cigarettes, so my way of thinking kind of parallels yours. I do know that he started smoking at age 15 and he's 50 now so the habit is definitely ingrained. I am praying he will be able to quit.