Hi Eric,

You said it right here:

"the cancer experience can change the way people see you, and that's more of a testament to the type of person "they" are and speaks nothing about the person you've become due to your experience."

That is the risk one takes when going public with their cancer.
I question if one decides to keep quiet, would the secret eventually come out anyway? Would others not notice something different? Especially if you've had radical surgery. I had a selective neck dissection and it's barely noticeable (although I can see a difference). Most of my work is on the phone (at my day gig) but I'm in the public eye as a musician/performer. Like you in your hotel pursuits, I don't know what the future holds concerning my music and performance. Perhaps I will have to pursue another avenue where I can make an impact and have a purpose (like teaching).

I believe one must pursue their passions and be rewarded for their accomplishments. I found your post to be inspirational and I thank you for sharing. Best wishes, positive thoughts and prayers.

"T"