My mother in law refuses to drink and she is over 200 lbs with 8-20 oz/day. She is hospitalized just after nadir every 3 weeks like clockwork. "You don't understand me...I am like a camel and drink when I'm thirsty every 2-3 days."

I remember the Wall Street Journal full page article in 1983,"You can lead a horse to water...but you can't manage it to drink."

It makes no sense to water drinkers just like they don't understand how we can drink all the time.


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