Thanks everyone, for the support and well-wishes, I feel the same to all of you who have gone through much worse.

I do have a follow up question for those that have had oral surgery, what does the site feel like after healing? Is it normal to be lumpy? I ask because where they took the tumor out has another lump, and I don't know if its scar tissue or it's trying to grow back already...? Of course I will know more when I meet with the ENT. Let me know if this question belongs in a different thread.