Thanks for the reply klo i appreciate it...
thats exactly how i feel, that i need to accept whatever it is they tell me which is that i have severe acid reflux...after seeing 6 ENTs 1 oral surgeon and dentist and having been told that they are absolutely positive it isnt cancer im sure i should feel that way hence one of them did say that they see about ten to 15 patients with oral cancer on a daily basis and my case was nowhere compare to what they see...However, what bothers me is that the lump remains and the ear pain along with throat pain and tooth sensibility known to be symptoms of oral cancer are present on the same side where the lump is located and the medication for the acid reflux doesnt ease or provide any significant relief to these pains. the constant feeling of something cracking or popping in my throat is weird and unexplainable and it adds to my concern and fear of having oral cancer.

I really appreciate ur advice it really helps thanks for hearing me out and taking the time to reply.
fhdez