LeeLee

Since you were able to hit reply to JayTee' post, let's spell out how you can post your own thread about your husband and get answers from people who have not only survived but thrived with the exact same cancer as your husband plus comments from other caregivers like yourself.
At the top of this page on the left hand side there is a blue
Introduce yourself", just click on it and you will be on the Introduce yourself forum home page. At the top right, underneath the blue lines, there will be a button saying:
New Topic. Just click on that and a box will pop up for your post, just like the one when you hit reply to JayTee.

As a caregiver, you will find other caregivers understand your issues plus the patients will also chime in with their first hand experience and advice on problems and issues facing your husband. Welcome to OCF. There are no questions you cannot ask here in the open forum that will upset us and don't worry if they sound basic or silly. We've thought them ourselves at some point whether we asked them or not
Charm