Kathy, having cancer has been a life changing experience. Although there are many times I am extremely ill and frustrated, it has transformed me in every way. The only family support I have is my husband and children so during my first surgery I was isolated and alone during the day. It has brought the most wonderful people into my life and giving back when it is physically possible for me gives my life purpose. I believe that everything happens for a purpose and puts you on the path you should be on. That path isn't always easy.