Hey, Gary, don`t worry about it, I`ve gotten myself deleted with my less than perfect attitude.....Frank was a recovering alcoholic also,yesterday he got his news letter from the Caron Foundation,..... had a good article about compassion in it. I think lots of times if we discover a path that works for us we think everyone should just say ,yes, you`re right..........I know when I found Buddhism, I though everyone should just be Buddhist............I also understand addiction from a healthcare point, since I`ve done lots of rehab nursing.........anyhow. Ive been scolded and deleted........Hugs, Dee