Hi Wendy! So glad you found us It sure sounds like you and your family have been through more than your share of struggle. I think everyone would be in agreement with me here when I say I HATE CANCER! I'm so sorry to hear that you lost so many beloved family members from this dreadful disease. I'm also sorry you had to endure your own cancer diagnosis. That being said, I'm so glad to hear you've made it through treatment and are cancer free!!!

I can understand the fear you had about missing out on your daughters important life events. Sadly my mom didn't make it to experience those events in my life, but was lucky enough to share them with my older sister. I'm so happy that your daughters still have you here to share in those moments.

I wish I had some words of wisdom for you in terms of handling life post treatment. Unfortunately my mom was only a few months out of treatment when she passed. However, I know if we had found this forum while she was going through the pain and struggle of surgical recovery, treatment, and then the depression after, we would have found a wealth of information and an amazing group of people who understood exactly what she was going through. I know many people here will be able to help guide you through this stage of recovery.

I hope you continue to do well and look forward to seeing more posts from you.