Hi Emily - she may just be being cautious but she should be - several things - the fact that you're so young is one, the fact that it was poorly differentiated, is another, and the third thing - your 2nb status - makes me think you should listen to your aunt. It definitely won't hurt to go to the des a little more frequently and it might help.

hugs! Ps - I see my dr. Every three months as well. The other dr. Is being lackadaisical. Cancer is serious and should be taken seriousky.