I saw my surgeon every month until this month when I hit the one year post surgery mark. Now I see him every other month. I also see my MO and RO every three months. My exams with the surgeon are pretty short though. 10-15 mintues. He does a check, a scope and then we discuss any concerns I might have. He also does an ultrasound of my neck every other visit. I'm glad you're looking for another doctor. I think your aunt is correct and you should get a good, regular checkup from someone who will take you seriously.