Tomorrow is last info day before decision. We wonder how much agony we are willing to go thru at 80 yrs of age. We all want to be healthy at any age but the cure may not help our overall health. I know we will do something but also looking at the least invasive options. Just venting. Any 80 yr old out here?

Caregiver to wife with stage 4 oral cancer. Cheek and 2 lymph nodes.Diagnosed April 2012. At age 80 decided against major surgery.Currently doing 9 chemos and then 7 weeks of radiation/chemo.