Throughout my brother's treatment an old saying kept coming to mind."Work is love made visible". Sometimes to relieve people of drudgery, housework, lawns to be mowed - whatever - is all you can do, but it is an enormous load to relieve people of at such a time. I agree with Wendy - whatever you do will be right.
Brother 49yo DX 22/6/11 Tonsil SCC HPV+ Stage IV T4N1(?)M0. Carbo/docetaxel (Taxotere)19/7, 11/8 (with E-tux), 1/9; E-tux 11/8, 25/8, 15/9, 30/9, 14/10, 28/10; IMRT X 35 (70gy tumour;63gy nodes;56gy gen area) 19/9-4/11/11. Clear PET scan 1/2/12. 1 and 2 year post treatment checks good.
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