Hi Christine,
I'm so sorry to hear about your struggles. I am also in Virginia, what part are you located in? The doctors that treated me with surgery and radiation were incredible, within one team of medical professionals I had every kind of doctor I needed............oncologist, radiation oncologist, otolaryncologist, plastic surgeon, internist (for stomach tube), speech therapist, physical therapist, they even have a dentist whose specialty is radiation patients. They are located at the Eastern Virginia Medical School out of Norfolk General. Are you anywhere near us? Take care,
Minnie