thanks for the help. We also talk by writing, it's funny he was the alway talking and now I am. I've been doing a hit and miss thing learning how to help him. Neither one of us thought about after the surgery. I had no idea how cancer attacks the body.

We're doing this one step at a time. And the next is speech theapy.

thanks agian for the words, it's nice to hear from others.

Mary


Mary caretaker for John, diagnosised 6/03, stage 1V,left base tongue,epiglottis, left side 3/72, right side 2/12 nodes postive metastatic basaloid squamous,with perinodal soft tissue both sides. Rad 5580 cGy 31 fractons 8wks.