Zeb,

If it's any consolation I don't mind if you give or receive oral sex...you not only have my permission but my blessing!

My only caveats would be to be safe about it (dental dams and condoms) if you are not in a long term monogamous relationship, if you are get her tested and think about getting vaccinated if you fit the criteria.

Other then that brother life is a crap shoot so when I go I'll know that I didn't let fear make my decisions for me, but I made them while taking every precaution to ensure my well being...no regrets.

Now I'm thinking about Oral sex, thanks guys.