I too constantly raved about the members opinions as they seemed to have more credibility than me. If only I had a dollar for the times I started with "DavidCPA had that" or "EricS says..." or "Charm thinks ..." as these people were male, solved problems rather than offered emotional support (Alex's preferred style of behaviour) and did it with a sense of humour.

There were many others too but those three stand out as the ones who resonated with Alex